CMW Rules

Yeah, yeah - everyone loves rules. Bare with us, we must have rules in place to protect our members - please understand. :)

This website is for United States military wives. You MUST be married to a military member to join this message board. Christian Military Wives is not associated with the DOD, nor do we represent the DOD in any way.


Do not violate OPSEC:


Operational Security or "OPSEC" is the most important threat to the safety of your service member. OPSEC requires the active participation of every service member regardless of his or her rank or job and their spouses and family members. What seems innocent can in fact be a piece of a much larger puzzle. The bottom line is failure to obey OPSEC rules and guidelines put our people at risk; don’t let them say they heard it from a military wife! Lets keep these puzzle pieces apart!

Any post that violates ANY of the OPSEC rules will be edited or deleted depending on the extent of the information. This is not a violation of your 5th amendment. Remember what may not seem like a big deal to you may be a big deal to someone else. This includes phrases such as: “Steve will be home the day after my grandmas birthday". If you are questioning your post, don't post it!

While posting your last name, is not against OPSEC, remember this is a public website and we do not encourage you to post personal information about yourself. Your soldier does have his name on his uniform, so if you have photos of your soldier in uniform - you may want to consider blacking out his/her name.

Posting tickers that contain information on when your husband will return from a deployment is a violation of OPSEC. You will not want to post a ticker that says when he left home, if you post in another thread about him only having a 15 month deployment - it is easy to figure out the month the unit is due home.

Users are not permitted to post negative, slanderous, abusive, hateful, harassing, inaccurate, sexual, vulgar, obscene, profane, racial, threatening, bad-language, copyrighted, any other violations of the law or any material that is knowingly false and/or defamatory about any person or entity including Christian Military Wives.

No cussing.

We will have no debating... this board is here to support other military wives and families. Here is not the place to discuss if you believe there should or should not be a war... or who should or should not be president, etc.

If you do so decide to do any of the above stated, this is terms for an immediate, no questions asked indefinite moderation or banning on our site.

Please post an introduction within the first week you register...
- you will find this section in the forum area under "Introductions." :) ((it's simple)) :)

To keep your account active after the first week, you must let one of the admins know if you will be gone longer than 60 days without posting.

About Advertising Your Personal Business or Organization - while having a one line signature line advertising a business or organization is fine, we have rules not to place advertisements on the main site, however - we do have a section in the forum area where you may talk about your personal businesses. If you would like to purchase advertisement space on the main website, please contact Patti via email at: patti@christianmilitarywives.com

Signature Line - please limit size of photos in your signature line and keep in mind that some users are still using dial up and dsl to access our forum. Photos can take a long time to load. Thanks in advance for understanding. :)

Disclaimer: The officers, moderators and members of ChristianMiiltaryWives.Com are not licensed councilors, or psychologists. If you have an issue you are dealing with in life, we are more than happy (and willing) to pray for you - but we are not at liberty to offer online counseling... in some cases however, we can try to refer you to a councilor in your area. We are also obligated to report illegal activities such as physical abuse, child abuse etc... to proper authorities.

If you do not provide a first name, last name, address, email address and phone number - we cannot grant you access to the website. We will not ever give away your information, we will not sell it. Only our officers can see your contact information. Only our administration has access to your information, we do not allow other members to view your information.

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We do not participate in any form of protest for any reason. We are a ministry and our focus is on military spouses and their immediate, practical needs. We support people exercising the legal, constitutional rights, but we choose to not participate in such activities.