Soldiers and Sailors Civil Relief Act
By PattiIf you are asking yourself, "what's that?" then read on! ;-)
Under the provisions of the Soldiers' and Sailors' Civil Relief Act of 1940, you may qualify for any or all of the following:
• Reduced interest rate on mortgage payments.
• Reduced interest rate on credit card debt.
• Protection from eviction if your rent is $1,200 or less.
• Delay of all civil court actions, such as bankruptcy, foreclosure or divorce proceedings.
CLICK HERE for more information!
Wilmington, NC Military Wives & Children Conference
By PattiSaturday, May 15, 2010
*Wonderful inspiration from military wife and author of Wife of a Soldier, a Journey of Faith, Diana Juergens
February Is National Friendship Month!
By PattiDid you know that February is National Friendship Month?
Lucy and Ethel would be thrilled!
Can you imagine how they would celebrate if they could join us?
I can assure you it would be a hoot,
and would include chocolate!
Have you ever celebrated the amazing gift of friendship in your Women's Ministry (small group)? Before you answer let’s get an expert’s definition of what that means. Webster defines Celebrate as: to observe a noble occasion with festivities—to show happiness that something good or special has happened.
Sounds like Mr. Webster had experienced true friendship. In the body of Christ we too have experienced true friendship and I think that calls for a celebration. So, let’s get out the party hats and order the cake—we even have permission in God’s word!
In the Old Testament, we read how God ordained feast and festivals where his people would gather and celebrate. Friendship is ordained by God a beautiful gift to be treasured, enjoyed and, yes, something to celebrate.
One of my favorite verses of scriptures is:
Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work,
if one falls down his friend can help him up. — Eccl. 4:9-10.
I have been "helped up" many times,
and that gives me a reason to celebrate.
Here’s a simple and fun idea for your women's ministry to celebrate friendship. It doesn’t need to be in February. However, February might be a good time to put it on your calendar.
Death by Chocolate Party
- Watch the Lucy and Ethel Job Switching DVD—Use the clip "Let Em Roll."
- Serve refreshments—that are rich in chocolate.
- Decorate with the Colors Pink and Brown—Aqua makes a great accent. (The party supply stores have many items to select from.)
- Invite at least three women to share their testimonies about a special friendship that had a real impact in their life.
- As the director, take a few moment to share about the most important friendship we have—Jesus.
- Make this an outreach project by having women invite their best friends.
Want to help the women in your church
connect and grow meaningful friendships?
Order Frankie’s Bible study Why We Need Girlfriends.
w w w . F r a n k i e D S h e r m a n . c o m
Frankie Sherman is a national speaker, comedian, and Bible teacher for confer-ences, retreats, and women's events. She fell in love with Jesus at Vacation Bible School and takes every opportunity to tell others about the joy of being alive in Christ. She is a former choreographer for the Georgia Peach Bowl and the Florida Citrus Bowl Halftime Show. Her specialty is in theater musical/productions. Her first Bible Study, Why We Need Girlfriends is based on the relation-ship of Mary and Elizabeth, from Luke's gospel, two women brought together by extraordinary circumstances by an extraordinary God. Frankie is from South Carolina—loves sweet tea, BIG hair and her grand-girls. She believes there will never be another Elvis and knows that her Jesus will return for her soon.
Frankie Sherman | 137 E Peninsula Dr. | Laurens, SC 29360
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Sign & Send A Bible For Free To Our Military!
By Patti

On behalf of Operation Worship...
George W Bush Visits Ft. Hood Victims
By Patti
This is a forwarded email I wanted to share... great story!
The doctor had his TV on in his office when the news of the military base shootings came on. The husband of one of his employees was stationed there. He called her into his office and as he told her what had happened, she got a text message from her husband saying, "I am okay." Her cell phone rang right after she read the message. It was an ER nurse,” I’m the one who just sent you a text, not your husband. I thought it would be comforting but I was mistaken in doing so. I am sorry to tell you this, but your husband has been shot 4 times and he is in surgery."
The soldier's wife left Southern Clinic in Dothan and drove all night to Ft.Hood. When she arrived, she found out her husband was out of surgery and would be OK. She rushed to his room and found that he already had visitors there to comfort him. He was just waking up and found his wife and the visitors by his side. The nurse took this picture.
What? No news crews and cameras?
I sent my cousin in Fayetteville, N.C. (Retired from Special Forces) that picture of Geo. W. visiting the wounded at Ft. Hood. I got this reply: What is even better is the fact George W. Bush heard about Fort Hood, got in his car without any escort, apparently they did not have time to react, and drove to Fort Hood.
He was stopped at the gate and the guard could not believe who he had just stopped. Bush only asks for directions to the hospital then drove on. The gate guard called that "The president is on Fort Hood and driving to the hospital." The base went bananas looking for Obama. When they found it was Bush they immediately offered escort and Bush simply told them he wanted to visit the wounded and the dependents of the dead. He stayed at Fort Hood for over six hours...
Thank you Mr. and Mrs. George W. Bush!
CMW Partners With Give An Hour
By PattiWe understand that individuals who have served in Iraq and Afghanistan--and their families--may need help dealing with the effects of wartime service. We want to help you heal and offer a variety of mental health services to address your needs. We are a nonprofit organization providing free mental health services to U.S. military personnel and loved ones affected by the current conflicts in Iraq and Afghanistan. We are offering a range of mental health services in order to address a variety of needs for those of you seeking services.
Our Services
Our providers can help in the following areas:
- Individual Services
- Marital Services
- Family Services
- Group CounselingChild and Adolescent Services
- Parent Guidance
- Post-Traumatic Stress
- Alcohol/Chemical Dependency
- Pastoral Counseling
- Grief and Loss
- Traumatic Brain Injury
- Anger Management
- Anxiety
- Separation/Divorce
- Sexual Abuse
The participating mental health professionals offer a wide range of services including individual, marital, and family therapy; substance abuse counseling; treatment for post-traumatic stress disorder; and counseling for individuals with traumatic brain injuries. Whether it is a young military wife who is anxious because her four-year-old has had nightmares since her husband’s deployment or a father who is struggling to cope with his son's loss of a leg as a result of an explosion in Iraq, both will receive the assistance they need to move through their experience. The healthier the support system for the returning troops, the lower the risk of severe or prolonged dysfunction within these military families.
Please, visit Give An Hour for more information on how you can find help today!
Friends of Kurdistan Visiting Fort Bragg Area
By Patti---

Here's a letter from Amy:
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I made a promise to each kurds that shared with me their gratitude for the sacrifices of your sons and daughters, that I would tell their families. In March, if you and are group are open to this, my family and I could travel to visit your group and share this message with you. I have discussed it with my husband, and being March break for the children we could build our holiday around the meeting.
I look forward to hearing from you. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Amy Ball
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CMW Girls Get Away Cruise
By Patti




What is the Girl's Get-A-Way Cruise?
The Girl's Get-A-Way Cruise is a cruise for women featuring today's top Christian speakers and artists. It's a cruise for all ladies from mothers and daughters to sisters and from good friends to church groups! There's something for everyone on the Girl's Get-A-Way Cruise. You'll enjoy morning devotions, meet and greets, two beautiful ports of call, shopping, exquisite dining and so much more!
What is included in the price of the cruise?
*all meals (there's gourmet fare in the formal dining rooms, casual indoor and outdoor grills open for meals throughout the day and 24 hour room service)
*non-carbonated beverages (i.e. tea, juices, coffee)
*all concerts, speaker sessions, etc. put on by Premier
*use of the ship's beautiful pools
*use of the ship's health and fitness center
*taxes, fees, and gratuities, are pre-paid and added to your reservation total ($225 per person)
What is not included in the price of the cruise?
*items of personal nature (phone calls, internet, laundry, etc.)
*spa & beauty salon
*soft drinks (however, cards are available for a low price which get you unlimited soft drinks throughout the cruise)
*any meals, events or excursions while in Port
*airfare (although you can take advantage of discounts offered through the Orbitz link on our website)
*ground transportation
*cruise insurance (available through Premier for an additional fee)
Who may sail?
Please make sure that everyone in your cabin is eligible to sail.
*Infants who are at least 6 months old on the day of departure may sail.
*Women who will be less than 24 weeks into their pregnancy on the day of departure, and for the duration of the cruise, may sail. This policy is due to the risk of premature labor. Pregnant women must have a letter from their doctor stating how far along (in weeks) their pregnancy will be at the beginning of the cruise, that mother and baby are in good health and fit to travel, and that the pregnancy is not high-risk.
*Adults aged twenty-one or older may sail. The Cruise Line shall refuse boarding to any guest under the age of twenty-one unless the guest is:
*traveling in the same stateroom with an individual twenty-five years or older;
*traveling in the same stateroom with their spouse (Proof of age and/or proof of marriage are required); or
*traveling with a parent or guardian in an accompanying stateroom.
Guests not conforming to these policies will be denied boarding and no refund of the cruise fare (if applicable) will be issued. Sorry, there are NO EXCEPTIONS to these policies.
Will there be a concert schedule available for the cruise?
Yes. You will receive a copy of the official "Cruise News" newspaper in the Port Terminal before we embark. This will give you a list of all the events for the trip.Pricing:
If you book your reservations in January, prices begin at $100 down!
Prices booked on occupancy and room type:
We have cabins set aside for CMW. The prices below include our CMW discount and are in Category M (Interior Stateroom). You can invite all of your friends. Civlians women welcome!
The following payments are set up per person, for the next 8 months if scheduled in January. As you see, the more you have in a room, the less expensive.
$100 down-payment
$77 per month - four per room
$81 per month - three per room
$84 per month - two per room
You may choose how many people you would like in your room with you. If you do not have anyone you can think of to share a room with, don't worry! We will work with you to try to partner you with another military wife. Also, The Girls Get Away Cruise has a feature on their website to help you find a roommate. You can register to find a roommate HERE.
Prices include port fees, taxes and tips.

Interior Stateroom
Your Cruise Includes...
*Morning Devotions
*The Country's Top Christian Speakers
*Christian Concerts
*Rock Climbing Wall
*Special activities for teens, singles, mothers & daughters and more
*Shopping, Sight-Seeing & Sun Bathing
*Expert Color Consultations
*Sauna, Spa and Fitness Center on board the ship
*A Fashion Show straight from the runway
*Q&A with our special guests
*24-Hour Room Service
And so much more!
To book your reservation ASAP call: 1-800-889-5265 - be sure to ask for JANET (extention 213). If Janet does not answer, leave a message. Make sure you tell Janet you are with the CHRISTIAN MILITARY WIVES group so you will be able to have the discount.
50% of the rooms are already sold out. The Girls Get Away Cruise is giving us a great discount, hurry before it's too late.
Claire and I will be on the cruise and we hope you will join us for this wonderful time of Christian Fellowship with other military wives!
You may email me: patti@christianmilitarywives.com if you have any questions. You may also go directly to The Girls Get Away Cruise website for more information. Remember, when you call in to make sure you tell them you are with CHRISTIAN MILITARY WIVES so your discount will apply.
A Dickens Holiday - Fayetteville, NC
By Patti10th Anniversary of A Dickens Holiday
Produced by the Arts Council with the Downtown Alliance
A Family Tradition Continues
On Friday, Nov. 27, from 1 until 9 p.m., Historic Downtown Fayetteville will again be transformed into a unique and wonderful experience.
Ever wish for a simpler time … when the pace of life wasn't hectic and families still enjoyed spending evenings together? Roll back the clock with us for A Dickens Holiday.
Horse drawn carriages roll up and down Hay Street, carrying shoppers the old fashioned way by merchants, artisans and vendors of all sorts of delightful treats. Joyful children pose with Father Christmas for memory laden pictures. The inviting aroma of cider and gingerbread permeate the chilly air.
Perhaps you will be greeted by Tiny Tim and his family. Or maybe you will encounter Scrooge and the Ghost of Christmas Past. Throughout the day, sounds of the season fill the air as carolers and musicians stroll among the crowd. Don’t miss the exhibition of professional chefs competing in the Dickens Holiday Classic Gingerbread Competition in the Rainbow Room.
As darkness approaches and the clock reaches 5 p.m., townspeople gather in front of the Arts Council for the candlelight procession to join behind the carriage carrying Queen Victoria and Charles Dickens to the Market House. There, the two will address the waiting crowd followed by the tree lighting. For a special “audience” with the Queen and Mr. Dickens, visit the Metropolitan Room, where both will be greeting the public at 6:45 p.m. You won’t want to leave as shortly thereafter, the Dickens Costume Contest begins.
The evening continues with a fireworks display at 8:30 p.m.
A Dickens Holiday is sponsored in part by:
The Fayetteville Observer, Fayetteville PWC, the City of Fayetteville and Cumberland County.
To see the Fayetteville PWC's "Community Connection" video
of A Dickens Holiday, click here.
Be sure to catch these special events:
Hot Cider & Gingerbread help keep you warm throughout the day. Vendor stalls on every block of Hay Street. 50¢ each.
Preserve a lifetime memory with a picture of you and your loved ones with Father Christmas
and our authentic Victorian sleigh at the Arts Council Building $5 per print.
Amazing holiday entertainment at the Arts Council Building and the Metropolitan Room, Green Street at the Market House.
Create an original Victorian ornament to take home or hang on the community tree. 1-7 p.m. at Fascinate-U Children’s Museum.
Watch professional chefs build magical gingerbread houses right before your eyes. 1-5 p.m. at the Rainbow Room. $500 first prize award! Winner announced at 6:30 p.m. Vote for “People’s Choice Award” until 9 p.m.
TUBACHRISTMAS free concert hosted by Hay Street United Methodist Church. This all tuba and euphonium concert is a holiday tradition first started at New York’s Rockefeller Plaza Ice Rink in 1974 and has been performed all over the world. Anyone who has ever
enjoyed a Tuba Chr istmas concert will never forget this unique experience! Get a sneak-peek at the Metropolitan Room stage.
Victorian Carriage Rides 1-9 p.m. Enjoy the sights and sounds of a “Dickens” downtown on our big decorated horse-drawn hitch wagon. Only $10 for adults, $5 for children. Tickets on sale at 222 Hay Street beginning at noon on the day of the event. Come early – they sell out fast! 

Queen Victoria Carriage Rides 1-9 p.m. Enjoy a longer, more personal tour of historic downtown Fayetteville in this intimate setting. Tours leave from the Fayetteville Area Transportation Museum, Franklin and Maxwell streets. $15 per person. Discover treasures of the Transportation Museum and marvel at the Victorian model train display while you wait for your carriage. Advance ticket purchase recommended by calling (910) 678-8899.
This Victorian Life display on 2nd floor of the Market House - exhibit of authentic artifacts and historic information from the mid to late Victorian period.
Candlelight Procession and Tree Lighting Ceremony 5:30 p.m. Gather in front of the Arts Council Building at 5 p.m. for the candlelight procession to the Market House. Pick up a free candle at selected merchants while shopping during the afternoon, or in front of the Arts Council Building.
Join thousands of townspeople for Fayetteville’s largest candlelight procession, led by Queen Victoria herself! Enjoy a brief performance by Gilbert Theater actors atop the Market House! Charles Dickens and Queen Victoria will address the townspeople and Tiny Tim will “throw the switch” to light the Community Tree!

A Dickens Costume Contest 6:30 p.m., free admission, the Metropolitan Room. Win cash prizes in men’s, women’s, and children’s categories. Entry fee only $10. Contestants model authentic Victorian costumes from the Dickens era (1830-1860) that they have created. This fun, popular event begins with a “Piccadilly Promenade” and a fire-side chat with Charles Dickens.
Welcome To Our Newest Ministry Leader!
By Patti
Rick, Grace and Catherine Fitzgerald
Please read the following paragraph as Catherine describes herself...
About two years ago, God really laid military wives on my heart. I was in Florida at the time with my husband and God called me to start a military wives Bible study in my home. I am a "Timothy" in nature, more timid, reserved so this was a huge step of faith. Our first meeting we had 8 ladies and when I was about to leave last year, we had almost 50 (some only attended the offshoot book club that met at nights to accomodate those who worked). It was a huge time of growth and I learned a lot about leadership. After we moved, God gave me a period of renewal and waiting.
About 5 or 6 months ago, our church got a new women's ministry leader. I shared with her my heart in women's ministry, specifically military wives and she asked me to create a new ministry for these ladies. With the support of the pastoral staff, we have recently had our first military wives Bible study and had 9 ladies attend. This ministry is called Operation: Hope Front and we seek to Engage, Encourage and Equip Military Wives with God's love and promises. As part of that, we have the military wives bible study, practical help during deployments, a conference slated for May, 2010, outreach/service projects for our military, and more.
I'm excited to see the Lord use Catherine in a mighty way. CMW is here to support Catherine, just as Catherine is helping to love, support and mentor our CMW members in a wonderful way. CMW already has many small groups geared to Christian Military Wives located around the USA, and near military bases around the world.
Fun Q&A with Catherine:
How long has your husband served in the USMC? Hubby Rick has been a Marine for 12 years this year. Enlisted/reservist before he decided to become a pilot.
Favorite Color? Probably blue...like a tiffany/baby blue :) if we were to get specific...
Favorite Snack? Chips and salsa all the way, oh and cheese dip to go with it.
Favorite thing to do in your downtime? Downtime... What is that? Just kidding. I love to write and I try to work out, but sometimes that gets pushed back a bit. I am also into cooking. I like cooking "fancy" as my friends say.
Favorite Music? Right now, I love The Fray, Jack Johnson and Mat Kearney.
Favorite Bible Verse? Just one?? Hmmm...my thorn has always been worrying and my life verse/reminder to take it one day at a time has always been: "Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." Matthew 6:34 NIV Although, Isaiah 26:3-4 has been a favorite as well lately.
Something not many know about you: I'm a law school dropout :). I thought I was being called into becoming a lawyer at the tender age of 21. When I got there, I realized it was not for me but was struggling with quitting and what others would think if I did. God used a passage in Rick Warren's book, The Purpose Driven Life, to let go of my fears of what I should do or be. It said something to the affect of, "God doesn't care what you do (in terms of occupation), He cares about who you are." From that moment on, I knew that I didn't have to try to live up to others expectations for my life, only God's.
Other info you'd like to share: Hmmm, let's see. I guess I could talk about what God is teaching me in this moment. I honestly think through this past year, in which I've faced several trials, God's one question is: Do you trust me? I think we are all trying to get our lives to be comfortable, struggle free. But like James says, "Consider it pure joy when you face trials of many kinds..." This military life has been trials of many kinds and He is teaching me to find joy in it. He has shown me over and over that even when my worst fear comes true, He is still is control and working it for my good. It is the hardest lesson we have to go through, but as we do, I am finding we can truly start to understand and know His character and His power.
Be sure to look in our GROUPS section to see if we have a group near you. If you do not see a group in your area, and you would like more information on starting a small, Christian based military support group for wives in your area... please email info@christianmilitarywives.com for more info.



